diff --git a/relay/client/client.go b/relay/client/client.go
index c2f6f9c71..f57bb2b92 100644
--- a/relay/client/client.go
+++ b/relay/client/client.go
@@ -19,10 +19,6 @@ const (
 	serverResponseTimeout = 8 * time.Second
 )
 
-var (
-	reconnectingTimeout = 5 * time.Second
-)
-
 type Msg struct {
 	buf []byte
 }
@@ -47,35 +43,42 @@ type Client struct {
 	serviceIsRunning      bool
 	serviceIsRunningMutex sync.Mutex
 	wgReadLoop            sync.WaitGroup
-	onDisconnected        chan struct{}
 
 	remoteAddr net.Addr
+
+	onDisconnectListener func()
+	listenerMutex        sync.Mutex
 }
 
 func NewClient(ctx context.Context, serverAddress, peerID string) *Client {
 	ctx, ctxCancel := context.WithCancel(ctx)
 	hashedID, hashedStringId := messages.HashID(peerID)
 	return &Client{
-		log:            log.WithField("client_id", hashedStringId),
-		ctx:            ctx,
-		ctxCancel:      ctxCancel,
-		serverAddress:  serverAddress,
-		hashedID:       hashedID,
-		conns:          make(map[string]*connContainer),
-		onDisconnected: make(chan struct{}),
+		log:           log.WithField("client_id", hashedStringId),
+		ctx:           ctx,
+		ctxCancel:     ctxCancel,
+		serverAddress: serverAddress,
+		hashedID:      hashedID,
+		conns:         make(map[string]*connContainer),
 	}
 }
 
+func (c *Client) SetOnDisconnectListener(fn func()) {
+	c.listenerMutex.Lock()
+	defer c.listenerMutex.Unlock()
+	c.onDisconnectListener = fn
+}
+
 func (c *Client) Connect() error {
 	c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Lock()
+	defer c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
+
 	if c.serviceIsRunning {
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
 		return nil
 	}
 
 	err := c.connect()
 	if err != nil {
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
 		return err
 	}
 
@@ -84,41 +87,6 @@ func (c *Client) Connect() error {
 	c.wgReadLoop.Add(1)
 	go c.readLoop()
 
-	c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-
-	go func() {
-		<-c.ctx.Done()
-		cErr := c.close()
-		if cErr != nil {
-			log.Errorf("failed to close relay connection: %s", cErr)
-		}
-	}()
-
-	go c.reconnectGuard()
-
-	return nil
-}
-
-func (c *Client) ConnectWithoutReconnect() error {
-	c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Lock()
-	if c.serviceIsRunning {
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-		return nil
-	}
-
-	err := c.connect()
-	if err != nil {
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-		return err
-	}
-
-	c.serviceIsRunning = true
-
-	c.wgReadLoop.Add(1)
-	go c.readLoop()
-
-	c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-
 	go func() {
 		<-c.ctx.Done()
 		cErr := c.close()
@@ -210,33 +178,6 @@ func (c *Client) close() error {
 	return err
 }
 
-func (c *Client) reconnectGuard() {
-	for {
-		c.wgReadLoop.Wait()
-
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Lock()
-		if !c.serviceIsRunning {
-			c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-			return
-		}
-
-		log.Infof("reconnecting to relay server")
-		err := c.connect()
-		if err != nil {
-			log.Errorf("failed to reconnect to relay server: %s", err)
-			c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-			time.Sleep(reconnectingTimeout)
-			continue
-		}
-		log.Infof("reconnected to relay server")
-		c.wgReadLoop.Add(1)
-		go c.readLoop()
-
-		c.serviceIsRunningMutex.Unlock()
-
-	}
-}
-
 func (c *Client) handShake() error {
 	defer func() {
 		err := c.relayConn.SetReadDeadline(time.Time{})
@@ -322,6 +263,8 @@ func (c *Client) readLoop() {
 		}
 	}
 
+	c.notifyDisconnected()
+
 	if c.serviceIsRunning {
 		_ = c.relayConn.Close()
 	}
@@ -384,3 +327,23 @@ func (c *Client) closeConn(id string) error {
 
 	return nil
 }
+
+func (c *Client) onDisconnect() {
+	c.listenerMutex.Lock()
+	defer c.listenerMutex.Unlock()
+
+	if c.onDisconnectListener == nil {
+		return
+	}
+	c.onDisconnectListener()
+}
+
+func (c *Client) notifyDisconnected() {
+	c.listenerMutex.Lock()
+	defer c.listenerMutex.Unlock()
+
+	if c.onDisconnectListener == nil {
+		return
+	}
+	go c.onDisconnectListener()
+}
diff --git a/relay/client/guard.go b/relay/client/guard.go
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..47a6ff722
--- /dev/null
+++ b/relay/client/guard.go
@@ -0,0 +1,33 @@
+package client
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"time"
+)
+
+var (
+	reconnectingTimeout = 5 * time.Second
+)
+
+type Guard struct {
+	ctx         context.Context
+	relayClient *Client
+}
+
+func NewGuard(context context.Context, relayClient *Client) *Guard {
+	g := &Guard{
+		ctx:         context,
+		relayClient: relayClient,
+	}
+
+	return g
+}
+
+func (g *Guard) OnDisconnected() {
+	select {
+	case <-time.After(time.Second):
+		_ = g.relayClient.Connect()
+	case <-g.ctx.Done():
+		return
+	}
+}
diff --git a/relay/client/manager.go b/relay/client/manager.go
index 686b4ac4f..e2ced6f5b 100644
--- a/relay/client/manager.go
+++ b/relay/client/manager.go
@@ -4,17 +4,19 @@ import (
 	"context"
 	"fmt"
 	"net"
+	"sync"
 )
 
-// Manager todo: thread safe
 type Manager struct {
 	ctx        context.Context
 	srvAddress string
 	peerID     string
 
-	relayClient *Client
+	relayClient    *Client
+	reconnectGuard *Guard
 
-	relayClients map[string]*Client
+	relayClients      map[string]*Client
+	relayClientsMutex sync.Mutex
 }
 
 func NewManager(ctx context.Context, serverAddress string, peerID string) *Manager {
@@ -28,13 +30,33 @@ func NewManager(ctx context.Context, serverAddress string, peerID string) *Manag
 
 func (m *Manager) Serve() error {
 	m.relayClient = NewClient(m.ctx, m.srvAddress, m.peerID)
+	m.reconnectGuard = NewGuard(m.ctx, m.relayClient)
+	m.relayClient.SetOnDisconnectListener(m.reconnectGuard.OnDisconnected)
 	err := m.relayClient.Connect()
 	if err != nil {
 		return err
 	}
+
 	return nil
 }
 
+func (m *Manager) OpenConn(serverAddress, peerKey string) (net.Conn, error) {
+	if m.relayClient == nil {
+		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
+	}
+
+	foreign, err := m.isForeignServer(serverAddress)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+
+	if foreign {
+		return m.openConnVia(serverAddress, peerKey)
+	} else {
+		return m.relayClient.OpenConn(peerKey)
+	}
+}
+
 func (m *Manager) RelayAddress() (net.Addr, error) {
 	if m.relayClient == nil {
 		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
@@ -42,48 +64,38 @@ func (m *Manager) RelayAddress() (net.Addr, error) {
 	return m.relayClient.RelayRemoteAddress()
 }
 
-func (m *Manager) OpenConn(peerKey string) (net.Conn, error) {
-	if m.relayClient == nil {
-		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
-	}
-
-	rAddr, err := m.relayClient.RelayRemoteAddress()
-	if err != nil {
-		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
-	}
-
-	return m.OpenConnTo(rAddr.String(), peerKey)
-}
-
-func (m *Manager) OpenConnTo(serverAddress, peerKey string) (net.Conn, error) {
-	if m.relayClient == nil {
-		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
-	}
-	rAddr, err := m.relayClient.RelayRemoteAddress()
-	if err != nil {
-		return nil, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
-	}
-
-	if rAddr.String() == serverAddress {
-		return m.relayClient.OpenConn(peerKey)
-	}
-
+func (m *Manager) openConnVia(serverAddress, peerKey string) (net.Conn, error) {
 	relayClient, ok := m.relayClients[serverAddress]
 	if ok {
 		return relayClient.OpenConn(peerKey)
 	}
 
 	relayClient = NewClient(m.ctx, serverAddress, m.peerID)
-	err = relayClient.ConnectWithoutReconnect()
+	err := relayClient.Connect()
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, err
 	}
-
+	relayClient.SetOnDisconnectListener(func() {
+		m.deleteRelayConn(serverAddress)
+	})
 	conn, err := relayClient.OpenConn(peerKey)
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, err
 	}
 
 	m.relayClients[serverAddress] = relayClient
+
 	return conn, nil
 }
+
+func (m *Manager) deleteRelayConn(address string) {
+	delete(m.relayClients, address)
+}
+
+func (m *Manager) isForeignServer(address string) (bool, error) {
+	rAddr, err := m.relayClient.RelayRemoteAddress()
+	if err != nil {
+		return false, fmt.Errorf("relay client not connected")
+	}
+	return rAddr.String() != address, nil
+}
diff --git a/relay/client/manager_test.go b/relay/client/manager_test.go
index 6c8edd534..2c041fff4 100644
--- a/relay/client/manager_test.go
+++ b/relay/client/manager_test.go
@@ -48,6 +48,10 @@ func TestNewManager(t *testing.T) {
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("failed to connect to server: %s", err)
 	}
+	aliceSrvAddr, err := clientAlice.RelayAddress()
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("failed to get relay address: %s", err)
+	}
 
 	clientBob := NewManager(ctx, addr2, idBob)
 	err = clientBob.Serve()
@@ -59,12 +63,12 @@ func TestNewManager(t *testing.T) {
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("failed to get relay address: %s", err)
 	}
-	connAliceToBob, err := clientAlice.OpenConnTo(bobsSrvAddr.String(), idBob)
+	connAliceToBob, err := clientAlice.OpenConn(bobsSrvAddr.String(), idBob)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("failed to bind channel: %s", err)
 	}
 
-	connBobToAlice, err := clientBob.OpenConn(idAlice)
+	connBobToAlice, err := clientBob.OpenConn(aliceSrvAddr.String(), idAlice)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("failed to bind channel: %s", err)
 	}