Improve case insensitivity consistency (#10884)

# Description

Add an extension trait `IgnoreCaseExt` to nu_utils which adds some case
insensitivity helpers, and use them throughout nu to improve the
handling of case insensitivity. Proper case folding is done via unicase,
which is already a dependency via mime_guess from nu-command.

In actuality a lot of code still does `to_lowercase`, because unicase
only provides immediate comparison and doesn't expose a `to_folded_case`
yet. And since we do a lot of `contains`/`starts_with`/`ends_with`, it's
not sufficient to just have `eq_ignore_case`. But if we get access in
the future, this makes us ready to use it with a change in one place.

Plus, it's clearer what the purpose is at the call site to call
`to_folded_case` instead of `to_lowercase` if it's exclusively for the
purpose of case insensitive comparison, even if it just does
`to_lowercase` still.

# User-Facing Changes

- Some commands that were supposed to be case insensitive remained only
insensitive to ASCII case (a-z), and now are case insensitive w.r.t.
non-ASCII characters as well.

# Tests + Formatting

- 🟢 `toolkit fmt`
- 🟢 `toolkit clippy`
- 🟢 `toolkit test`
- 🟢 `toolkit test stdlib`

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Co-authored-by: Stefan Holderbach <sholderbach@users.noreply.github.com>

crates/nu-cmd-dataframe/src/dataframe/eager/sql_expr.rs

@@ -152,7 +152,7 @@ fn apply_window_spec(expr: Expr, window_type: Option<&WindowType>) -> Result<Exp
 fn parse_sql_function(sql_function: &SQLFunction) -> Result<Expr> {
     use sqlparser::ast::{FunctionArg, FunctionArgExpr};
     // Function name mostly do not have name space, so it mostly take the first args
-    let function_name = sql_function.name.0[0].value.to_lowercase();
+    let function_name = sql_function.name.0[0].value.to_ascii_lowercase();
     let args = sql_function
         .args
         .iter()