Improve case insensitivity consistency (#10884)

# Description

Add an extension trait `IgnoreCaseExt` to nu_utils which adds some case
insensitivity helpers, and use them throughout nu to improve the
handling of case insensitivity. Proper case folding is done via unicase,
which is already a dependency via mime_guess from nu-command.

In actuality a lot of code still does `to_lowercase`, because unicase
only provides immediate comparison and doesn't expose a `to_folded_case`
yet. And since we do a lot of `contains`/`starts_with`/`ends_with`, it's
not sufficient to just have `eq_ignore_case`. But if we get access in
the future, this makes us ready to use it with a change in one place.

Plus, it's clearer what the purpose is at the call site to call
`to_folded_case` instead of `to_lowercase` if it's exclusively for the
purpose of case insensitive comparison, even if it just does
`to_lowercase` still.

# User-Facing Changes

- Some commands that were supposed to be case insensitive remained only
insensitive to ASCII case (a-z), and now are case insensitive w.r.t.
non-ASCII characters as well.

# Tests + Formatting

- 🟢 `toolkit fmt`
- 🟢 `toolkit clippy`
- 🟢 `toolkit test`
- 🟢 `toolkit test stdlib`

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Co-authored-by: Stefan Holderbach <sholderbach@users.noreply.github.com>

src/config_files.rs

@@ -70,8 +70,8 @@ pub(crate) fn read_config_file(
                 get_default_config()
             };
 
-            match answer.to_lowercase().trim() {
-                "y" | "" => {
+            match answer.trim() {
+                "y" | "Y" | "" => {
                     if let Ok(mut output) = File::create(&config_path) {
                         if write!(output, "{config_file}").is_ok() {
                             let config_type = if is_env_config {