refactor(get,select,reject)!: deprecate --ignore-errors in favor of --optional (#16007)

# Description
As decided on the team meeting on 2025-06-19, rename `--ignore-errors
(-i)` to `--optional (-o)` with a (currently) indefinite grace period.

After `--ignore-errors (-i)` is removed, the short flag `-i` can be used
for `--ignore-case` (not implemented as of this PR)

# User-Facing Changes
`get`/`select`/`reject`: rename `--ignore-errors (-i)` to `--optional
(-o)` to better reflect its behavior.

# Tests + Formatting
- 🟢 toolkit fmt
- 🟢 toolkit clippy
- 🟢 toolkit test
- 🟢 toolkit test stdlib

# After Submitting
Update docs and inform third parties that integrate with nushell.

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Co-authored-by: Bahex <17417311+Bahex@users.noreply.github.com>

crates/nu-std/testing.nu

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ def get-annotated [
     | from nuon
     | each {|e|
         # filter commands with test attributes, and map attributes to annotation name
-        let test_attributes = $e.attributes.name | each {|x| $valid_annotations | get -i $x }
+        let test_attributes = $e.attributes.name | each {|x| $valid_annotations | get -o $x }
         if ($test_attributes | is-not-empty) {
           $e | update attributes $test_attributes.0
         }