Now if we aren't given an explicit port, we always initiate the port search
at 12300 and count upward looking for an available port.
Normally the kernel will assign us a random port, but that's not ideal
in our case because we'd like to use the same port numbers whenever
possible; that avoids piling up crap inside iptables in the (hopefully
unlikely) event that we die without cleaning up correctly.
When regenerating outgoing connections, we set TTL=42 to prevent re-proxying
of requests. That's a little hacky, but at least it avoids infinite loops.
