Updating polars and sqlparser versions (#10114)

Polars and SQLParser upgrade.

I have exposed features that have been added to polars as command args
where appropriate.

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Co-authored-by: Jack Wright <jack.wright@disqo.com>
Co-authored-by: Darren Schroeder <343840+fdncred@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: sholderbach <sholderbach@users.noreply.github.com>

crates/nu-cmd-dataframe/src/dataframe/series/date/as_datetime.rs

@@ -143,7 +143,13 @@ fn command(
     })?;
 
     let res = if not_exact {
-        casted.as_datetime_not_exact(Some(format.as_str()), TimeUnit::Nanoseconds, None)
+        casted.as_datetime_not_exact(
+            Some(format.as_str()),
+            TimeUnit::Nanoseconds,
+            false,
+            None,
+            None,
+        )
     } else {
         casted.as_datetime(
             Some(format.as_str()),
@@ -151,6 +157,7 @@ fn command(
             false,
             false,
             None,
+            None,
         )
     };